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who are YOU?
“i aint to proud to beg and I’m not to strong to say I’ve been hurt.”
Time after time you see so many things happening in our world, yet as we look into our world, when have we actually took the time to look within our own mistakes. Ive made a lot of mistakes in my life and i can honestly say i don’t regret any of them because if I’d had not have made them then I wouldn’t be the wise person i am today. My mistakes allow me to create better decisions. Allow me to see the real me, what i should and should not do. My mistakes make me the woman i am today. Who are YOU to say “this person should be doing this that and the other” who are YOU to say “o no i know she doesn’t do that” or “ugh..hes soo….” who are YOU? well i can tell you who i am. I am a young college student who struggles everyday of her life living a dream that isn’t even hers. A young woman who strives to only be accepted by her family..not the world. I am ME! the young woman who does NOT judge but yet open her heart and wisdom to help those who i once was like! I AM MIRANDA! someone NO ONE knows…someone IM still trying to find. So before we go out and judge the next one, how about we all take a real good look in the mirror and try to judge ourselves.
females! smh!
when did females start to loose their mind!? what happened to this so called sisterhood? women disrespecting the youthful values to make a man happy, Surrendering their act to be humble to keep a man!? i never understood! I come from different examples of what a real woman is. Do you know of all my years of living i have never..NEVER seen my grandparents argue. Yet i seen my parents argue every time they’re in the same room together. My parents are good people..just not together. Growing up playing with the girls in my neighborhood i realized i hated females! all they talked about were boys! like ummmmmmm do y’all like sports?? getting dirty?? no? ok! i was stuck in a world of females stuck with the mindset that having a man is what makes your life complete. I feel like being satisfied and genuinely happy is what makes your life complete!!! I want a relationship like my grandparents! the one where no one knows your dirt! no one knows your personal business thats between the both of u! all they know is happiness and love between the two! one thing u will not find me doing is loosing my mind behind a man unless he’s my husband and he died! lmao! I’m sure ill go crazy then! but to fight another female because a man has done wrong? not me! to raise hell and cause a public disturbance because he did or said something that causes for a personal conversation?! not me! a lot of females get it twisted!! if u having a problem inside your relationship then you talk amongst your partner. if another female is involved..u talk to him about it! if u feel like he’s not being honest and u jus thane the absolute NEED to talk to the female then u do that on a personal and private conversation. I tell u! females these days like men drive them crazy for all the wrong reasons! u think he care that he hurting you!?
acceptance
what does it truly mean to accept? I’m having a hard time accepting someone whose in my personal life due to my own opinions of how they should really be living. I have to remember that not everyone is the same as me. Now this person doesn’t have the same goals nor mind set i have. But what bothers me is the both of us have been in the same environment for all my life. I know they’ve been exposed to things that i haven’t been exposed to and I know there are things I’ve been exposed to that they haven’t. Yet i feel as if thats no excuse, but thats the problem, i keep forgetting their not as strong as me. They have a problem, a drug and alcoholic problem, and it took me today after 20 years to realize that being an alcoholic and drug user isn’t something everyone can shake back on their own. I know their not as strong as i am and i know they feel like the world is against them but i feel as if me feeling like they don’t deserve love because they can’t get right is not helping their situation at all! if u know anyone whose an alcoholic or on drugs don’t knock them and be angry because honestly its a serious issue. Its something they can’t help themselves with. It takes a strong person to go cold turkey but it takes a wise and even stronger person to accept the help and love from those who care! Also remember…not everyone is like you! We are all different! Just be there for them and try to help! its ok to have tough love! but its not ok to abandon someone when their at their most weakest point and all they need is a little help!
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